cant get ignition key out,can still select park, and car seems to drive ok ?

It's at the bottom of the shifter assy, gaining access to it is the hardest part. Pull the #5 5amp fuse from the right hand fuse box, and see if you can get the key out. The relay is in the right rear distribution box, gearshift interlock relay.

thanks for that ill give it a go cheers

No worries