i have a 2008 ford taurus x 3.5 l no fire from #1 coil power and ground to coil

Not sure what you mean with "blow up in the tube." If you are not getting spark to a coil then you need to make sure you are getting power and the computer is grounding it. Electrical testing is required. If you need to find a shop near you, use this link https://repairpal.com/repair-shops Alex

Incorrect spark plug installation is the only thing that makes any sense here..