Steering wheel light comes on and steering is hard to turn. Could this be the steering column? If not, could it be an update that has to be done on computer panel? If not that, what could it be?

Hello, no, it sounds more like an electronic concern with the electronic steering gear and related components. You'll need a good diagnostic tool with chassis module interface capabilities to see what is going on and monitor component operations. This is something probably best left to trained skilled and experienced pros. Use this link to find some shops near you that can help with your concern: www.repairpal.com/repair-shops