Where is the starter. I cant find it.

Should be on the top front of the transmission bell housing and is visible looking at the motor. Follow the big red wire from the positive battery terminal right to it.

Its at the rear of the engine goes in under the intake manifold, you may need to remove the air filter housing to axcess the two bolts that secure the starter they go in from the driver's side of the bell housing. I think you have to remove an intake manifold brace as well its removed from under the car will take you about 1 hour.