My car turns over but wont start. When we do get is started for less than 5 min.

Hello, When you get a start and stall issue, it will become extremely difficult to test without proper professional diagnostic tools. Especially since, in your case, the ECU fuse is blowing, you have an electrical issue that is going to need thorough testing and diagnosis. I recommend contacting one of the certified shops in your area for diagnosis and/or repair.