what could the issue be causing this problem? and how do i fix it?

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i have a Mazda cx-9 and the pigtails that the headlights hook into keep burning out causing my headlights not to work, im replacing the pigtails every 2-3 weeks just to have lights at night! ive even rewired different pigtails for different lights lower power hoping they wouldnt burn out and still the same issue. I cant afford to continue replacing them and mazda wont recall because its "not a safety" issue and because there havent been enough complaints on this issue. the past 2 months ive just been using my high beams because they were reliable but ive gotten pulled over plus other drivers get upset and i dont blame them, but now my high beams and fog lights are doing the same thing! im not sure what it could be or what to do please help!

How long has your 2013 Mazda CX-9 had this problem?

about a year or two