After i get to my desination an come bck to the car it wont start.

Wht about the thermostat?Could tht be a problem for over heating.I drove it today an had no problems.but i also didnt use the A/C.

You never said you have an overheating issue. You said everything was fine even with the A/C running. Do you have an overheating issue?

I hvnt put antifreeze in my car since i left Ga,i live in philly now.The temp gadge always be in the middle,now since i drive with a/c on the temp gauge goes up.Today i didnt turn it on an it drove just fine.I hv been in philly for 4months now.After i get to my destination an get bck into the car it wont crank but if i wait for 20min it cranks right up.I got an oil change today.The man wanted 159dollars for oil change an radiator flush. I thought tht was to much so i just stuck with oil change.

Check antifreeze level and top off if needed. Also, get the main relay tested.

Thanks