Why can i not find the right relay switch for my 2008 compass

What is your question?

I've bought a ignition relay switch from o Reilly and AutoZone and both do not fit, the top outside prongs are to big to insert into the relay box. And I cannot find a diagram for this particular box that's within reach from the top by the battery,

What makes this problem better or worse?

Turn the key,no start but everything goes on

How long has your 2008 Jeep Compass had this problem?

1 day