Hello, before seeking a switch location - perhaps have the vehicle tested? Have you checked for any diagnostic trouble codes (DTC's) present? Have you checked fluid level and condition? If you have done this, post your findings so we can try to assist further. A faulty switch that selects gears will set a diagnostic trouble code for failure typically.
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