08 Odyssey suspension

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2005-2010 Odyssey has a poor suspension in all model lines and even Consumer Reports notes this. I have an 08 Odyssey LX and would like to know if I were to swap the EX-L or Touring suspension into my LX would it help it to be more stable yet still have good riding comford? I got 96000+ on the stock spring but 3000 on monroe struts and shocks.Dont like the set up at all, poor control,soft, sway around corners, but If I change every thing I want to stay with all Honda parts because I dont think mix and maching parts on suspensions is a good idea. Thanks, lexmaxx