Can you please tell me where the MES connector cable is located in a 2006 Honda Accord V6? It is supposed to be near the interior fuse box on the driver's side, but I don't see it.

The MES is a 2 pin connector under the left side of the dash. Some vehicles of that year have it and some don't. If your car does not have it then the SRS codes you are trying to clear will need to be done through the OBD connector.