I cant find transmission dip stick or where I would check transmission fluid.

It's located under the air filter housing. pull up the filter housing and you will see "Trans" written in red (at least that is how it is on my 97 sls).

Not sure if this link will help: Check here http://repairpal.com/automobile-owners-manuals-online or try this link you may be able to down load a free copy of the owner's manual for your vehicle http://www.autousermanual.com/ Perhaps stop by any old fashion auto parts store I am sure they would go out to your car and show you where the dipstick is, or a dealership should be courteous enough to help.