Car jerks at stop signs, red lights.. check engine light not on.

The oil consumption concern may or may not be related to what you're noticing. Jerking when stopping could be an engine performance concern or an automatic transmission concern. Testing will be needed to find out where to look for concern, to narrow it down. Based on your concern description, it sounds like it could be related to transmission shifting. Seek guidance at a local shop near you. An experienced technician will be able to see what is happening pretty quickly and begin needed troubleshooting. Use this link to find some shops near you that can help with your concern: www.repairpal.com/repair-shops