I tried jumping the A/C clutch to get the compressor running, so I could add freon, but I jumped the wrong terminal and it sparked, then the engine shut off, tried re-starting. but barely ran (like out of fuel) then now nothing...

TEST ALL fuses with a test light!

In addition - keep in mind the a/c compressor clutch WILL engage automatically - as soon as the system pressure is adequate enough to close the low pressure switch .. There is absolutely NO need to jump the compressor clutch !! .. Simply add refrigerant - that's ALL that needs to be done - it will enter the system on its own.