Hello,
Check in the owners manual, in the service section. It will be listed as a standard maintenance item, and the exact mileage will be indicated.
I prefer to change mine, whether a Mercedes Benz or a Volkswagen, at 40,000 miles. It cost little to DIY, and it keeps contaminants off of my gears.
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