Any ideas on what the issue may be?

I crossed the solenoid and it will start and like I said there's power to the starter it just isn't engaging but I had it tested and it tested out fine. I'm starting to think either the ignition write is getting grounded somehow somewhere or the starter relay itself. Any thoughts cud I know if it was the asd relay it wouldn't even run but once it's started it's fine.

Two words.....FUSEABLE LINK.!! ... There's several over by the battery, test as many as you can find with a test light on both sides of each link..... Next possible neutral safety switch.....And it is possibily the 'starter' relay... ignition switch...MAYBE!! ...Need a helper to turn key when testing.

I checked all the fuses everything is fine there and I thought about the neural safety switch but was told if it's in neutral it would start and it still doesn't

FUSEABLE LINKS ...I figured you checked the fuses!!!! I stated FUSEABLE LINK_!!!!!!! Google it!

I googled it but haven't found anything maybe you can see what I am supposed to look for our at I took a picture but not sure how to post it on here there aren't any fusible links by the battery though

Yes they are near the battery!! I have tested a van full of them! Google what is a fuseable link.... look at pictures... Good luck finding the open circuit... you may need hands-on help....