i'm starting to see coolant mixing in with my motor oil

possibly a blown head gasket....lets hope you didn't crack the engine block !

head gaskets, intake gaskets, cracks in heads, or cracks in block .Sometimes head bolts "walk" or loosen or strecth. Sometimes heads will warp. When you say you are starting to see oil mixing..... Basically, I read it as; I am starting to see my car's engine die.