Where is the fuel pump relay located on my 1997 Lincoln Town Car?

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My Town Car has been acting up when I start the car. It seems like over the past year or so, when I crank the car it does not always start on the 1st try. As time has past the problem just gets worse. The other day when I tried to start the car it would just turn the motor over but not start. I tried so many times that I ran the battery down. I think the fuel pump has died but before I replace it, I would like to test the relay. I am disabled and don't have much energy to search for the relay or even test it but I sure don't want to pay a shop to replace the fuel pump if the problem is only a bad relay.