2004 Drives in reverse fine, but will not catch in drive unless I rev the engine. Turned off O/D and I still have to rev the engine to go forward, but only initially. Then it drives normal you take it out of drive. have to rev the engine to make go

There is most likely a concern with the valve body and related components, or even a forward clutch issue. It doesn't look good, and "replacing all solenoids" was likely unnecessary and could have even made things more challenged. Hands on testing is needed, but this is likely an internal mechanical / hydraulic concern. Use this link to find some shops near you that can help with your concern: www.repairpal.com/repair-shops