Great, now I understand. You transmission control module has detected a problem in the transmission or one of the transmission sensors. My guess is that the GPS (Gear Position Sensor) is failing, this is very common on this vehicle. You'll need to get the diagnostic trouble codes read out. If you get the code 3-1-3, then the GPS will need replacement. Good Luck!
yes right next to the gear shifter there is 3 buttons that are for driving in winter sport or econmy and they sit to the left of the shifter ( W S E ) is how it looks, but they keeep blinking i assume the car dosen't know what gear to take off in - slow up hill - automatic kickdown problem ?