Need a car maintenance checklist for 230K miles. on 2000 Nissan Maxima

Bought my 2000 Nissan Maxima 3 years ago with 198K miles on it. It's been running gr8, but she's getting tired and needs lots of TLC and I need to know what needs to be done @ 230K miles. "Service Engine Soon" light is on, ABS light goes off & on, need front brakes, p/s leaks, have oil leak; trans needs flushing, etc., NEED REPLACEMENT SPARE TIRE, just went flat on me one day b4 putting on 4 new tires.

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LOOKS LIKE YOU HAVE A GOOD STARTING POINT. LET ME ADD TIMING BELT WATER PUMP AND TRANS FLUSH. GET ER DONE
But what ELSE needs to be done?
NOT TOTALLY SURE YOU NEED TO HAVE AN INSP DONE. IM NOT AWARE OF ANYTHING THATS BEEN DONE. SORRY